In recent years, my attitude towards public opinion has changed significantly. Once upon a time, I was keen on playing the role of a mediator, trying to seek balance in controversies. However, the passage of time has made me realize that this position is not always welcomed.

As I accumulated experience, I gradually came to understand several important truths:

First of all, the power of public opinion should not be underestimated. It can bring great psychological pressure to people, and not everyone has the ability to withstand such pressure.

Secondly, what I consider to be 'facts' may just be a small part of the ocean of information, merely a perspective from a specific angle.

Moreover, the 'justice' that each party in the debate insists on is often their deeply held belief. In this case, what I call an 'objective' position actually does not hold much significance.

Finally, the so-called 'neutral mediation' is not always welcome. Especially during emotionally charged moments, this attitude may be seen as a weakening of one's position, or even as a sign of indecisiveness.

Good intentions can sometimes have negative effects. Nevertheless, I can still understand those who choose to engage in public opinion battles. They do not argue for the sake of arguing, but out of a strong sense of justice, hoping to defend certain principles and also hoping to receive support from others when they encounter injustice themselves. I deeply resonate with this feeling.

However, even with such thoughts in my heart, I still remain cautious in my actions. The public opinion arena is like a gladiatorial arena; once you step in, it is difficult to withdraw unscathed. Here, there are no true winners; everyone has to pay a price.

Perhaps it is for this reason that I have become increasingly cautious. The world seems to be shrinking, and in the end, there may only be a few people who genuinely care, or even just myself.

Learn to keep silent, learn to be tolerant, learn to avoid disputes, and even learn to become numb. This is why emotions become so important. Only in extremely intimate relationships can we let down all our defenses and speak freely like children.

Whether it is familial love or romantic love, a sincere relationship should be like this: parents are willing to become children, and lovers are willing to become kids. 'Don't worry, you can always trust me. I will always be by your side.' This kind of commitment is what we truly need.